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Field Notes · Vol. 01

Real weddings.
Real disasters.

These are the kinds of disasters that actually happen on wedding days. Documented, repeated, and exactly what I plan against.

  1. 01The marriage license is left at home.
  2. 02The rings are in a hotel room across town.
  3. 03The officiant gets stuck in traffic.
  4. 04The hairstylist no-shows.
  5. 05Hair runs an hour long and the first look collapses.
  6. 06The dress rips twenty minutes before walking.
  7. 07The bustle takes 22 minutes and dinner starts without you.
  8. 08The florist swaps your peonies for carnations.
  9. 09The boutonnières are missing from the florist's box.
  10. 10The DJ plays the wrong first-dance song.
  11. 11The caterer ghosts on the wedding morning.
  12. 12The caterer brings the wrong dietary cards to an allergy table.
  13. 13The wrong cake is delivered, with another couple's names on it.
  14. 14The cake is gorgeous and there is no knife.
  15. 15The shuttle leaves without half the guest list.
  16. 16The bus driver doesn't have the gate code.
  17. 17The rental company drops everything at the wrong address.
  18. 18The venue's only outlet for the band is behind a locked door.
  19. 19Two guests are seated next to their ex.
  20. 20Rain you swore wouldn't come, with no tent rented.

So what actually prevents this?

A run-of-show tight enough that any vendor can step in cold. A short list of backup vendors who pick up on Sundays. And someone calm enough to make the call at 5:47am when the caterer goes dark. That's the job. That's me.